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Talking About Racism: Unmasking the Elephant in the Room

Doors at 5:30 pm; Event at 6:00 pm in the Back Room

Tickets are $5 - $150 sliding scale
Attend 3 workshops for $40
Attend 2 workshops for $25


The Talking about Racism: Unmasking the Elephant in the Room - A series of six interactive and progressive workshops exploring racism in contemporary American society.

She was 18 years old and drop dead gorgeous waiting for a train. Out of nowhere she is assaulted by a deranged man.   He slashes her throat and her accompanying sister is viciously stabbed. Within minutes, this young African American woman lies dead on the platform. Her accompanying sister lies in a pool of blood, and dozens of horrified spectators are traumatized. The offender, a random white man, gets away.  This is Oakland, California, July, 2018.

Twenty-first century racism has been repackaged, remaining deadly and ubiquitous.  Lynching has been replaced by the continuous, brutal murder of unarmed Black men and women in the custody of the state. Unwritten Jim Crow laws and policies are enforced by “citizen vigilantes”   taking matters into their own hands or calling in agents of the state when “uppity” Black folks dare to penetrate public or private “white spaces” .  Hate crimes have tripled in the last 5 years. The President is separating families at the border, denying the Dreamers sanctuary, disparaging all People of Color. The wealth differential between People of Color and whites continues to widen, while life expectancy for People of Color remains a full 8-10 years less than that of whites.   Runaway capitalism benefits the top 1% only, and systemic racism is upheld by every person remaining unaware, silent or too busy to become involved in dismantling a system that dehumanizes whites and every person of color within its borders.

Talking about racism can be challenging. Come out to discuss strategies for change. Get tools for personal transformation and the support of community. 

 Science has destroyed the biological myth of race.  As an American society, we continue to allow racism to divide us to our peril. The climate crisis, the rise of the business oligarchs and the proliferation of technology all predict a future where cooperation and community are critical.  These workshops will explore the concepts underlying the idea and reality of race and racism in America. The political and historic footprint of racism will be traced and we will look at the policies and practices that have kept racism alive and well in American society.  We will address our own attitudes, implicit biases and family stories.  We will focus on what it means to become anti-racist and explore conversational approaches to talking about race with our neighbors and friends.  These workshops are open to people of all backgrounds.

Each workshop will be experiential and complete in its entirety.  The series is intended to build on the knowledge base of each segment but participants can come to workshops sequentially or to individual sessions.

Timeslot – 3 hours

Session One – The development of the Atlantic Slave Trade and the notion of race – the making of a myth – racism as a tool of labor management, the invention of Whiteness – 

Implicit Bias and the development of racialized identity

What is race talk – dynamics and characteristics of

Why don’t we talk about race – protocols, avoidance strategies?

Session Two – Master Narrative vs Back Story – how are perceptions shaped?

Family stories


Micro-aggressions – identify, use and function – Practice

Session Three –Color Blind is Color Mute – the myth of meritocracy – who is an immigrant?

Stereotypes and Power Evasion

Equity vs Equality – Systemic Inequities

Session Four – The “new racism” – Exploring the idea of a “Post racial” America

White rage – Voter suppression, mass incarceration/the re-segregation of schools

Issues for Black/POC participants – Issues for White participants

Community Building

Session Five: Guidelines, Conditions and Solutions for Honest Racial Dialogues

Having Difficult Discussions, Processing new information, self-compassion

Talking to children about racism

Session Six: Building Lasting Bridges – Where are we now and where can we go?

Identifying and Targeting Racism

In our family circles

In our institutions and affiliations

How we invest and spend our money

Practicing what we preach – Family circles – next steps

Wrap up - Evaluation







Ann-Ellice Parker is a death educator and counselor. She is the owner of Seasons of Change, an end of life training and consulting company. She worked for 25 years as a health educator specializing in reproductive health and HIV prevention education. She brings a lifetime of political activism to her current anti-racism work. She is the proud grandmother of two, who believes that “We who believe in freedom cannot rest”.